#1 · Lasting
Best for: Stuck-but-committed couples wanting structured Gottman-based skill buildingEvidence-based couples therapy app built on Gottman Method research.
Lasting is the strongest couples app in the market — clinically grounded, bilaterally designed, affordable compared to therapy. For committed couples who are stuck on communication or specific recurring conflicts, this is the first place to look. Not a substitute for therapy in crisis but excellent for prevention and skill-building.
Strengths
- +Built on Gottman Method — the most peer-reviewed couples-therapy framework in psychology
- +Bilateral design — both partners answer questions independently, results compared and discussed
- +Owned by Talkspace, with optional licensed therapist add-on
- +Strong skill-building curriculum covering communication, conflict, intimacy, money, family
Where it falls short
- −Requires both partners to actually do the work — one-partner usage fails
- −Curriculum is structured (good for skill-building) but won't address acute crisis
- −Some users find the prompts repetitive once they've worked through the core curriculum
Pricing
Subscription ~$12/mo or $80/yr (per couple).
Platforms
iOS, Android
vs. ILTY
Lasting is the right pick for actual couples work. ILTY is individual reflection that helps you understand your own contribution to relationship dynamics — different tool, different shape.