“Every time I try to journal, I just end up writing the same anxious thoughts over and over until I feel ten times worse than when I started.”
Journaling is supposed to be healing. But for some people, it turns into a feedback loop where you're just marinating in your own pain with no way out. ILTY doesn't ask you to organize your thoughts into neat paragraphs. You just talk, and someone actually responds.
There's a reason every therapist, podcast, and self-help book tells you to journal. It does work for a lot of people. But the part they leave out is that for some brains, unstructured writing is basically an invitation to ruminate. You're not journaling wrong. Your brain is just really, really good at spiraling.
When you write down a painful thought and nothing comes back, your brain fills the silence with more painful thoughts. That's not a character flaw. That's how anxiety works. The thought sits on the page and stares back at you, and now there are two of it.
The fact that you tried journaling at all means you're actively looking for ways to feel better. That matters more than whether one specific tool clicks for you.
•Unstructured journaling can activate rumination loops instead of breaking them, especially if you tend toward overthinking
•Writing without a responding voice means your anxious brain fills the silence with its own worst-case scenarios
•Seeing painful thoughts written down can make them feel more permanent and real rather than passing
•Most journaling advice skips the part about needing a way to reframe, not just record
Instead of writing into a void, you talk to a companion who actually engages with what you're saying. Your thoughts don't just echo back at you.
ILTY's Mindful Guide notices when you're looping on the same thought and gently steers the conversation somewhere more useful without dismissing what you feel.
You don't have to figure out how to start or what to write. Just say what's on your mind. The conversation flows from there.
Journaling captures what you feel. ILTY helps you actually work through it in real time, asking questions that move you forward.
We want to be honest about our limitations:
Yes. Research shows that unstructured expressive writing can increase rumination in people prone to anxiety. It's not a universal tool, and it's completely valid to find that it doesn't work for you.
The key difference is response. A journal is a monologue. ILTY is a conversation. When your brain starts spiraling, a companion can notice and redirect. A blank page can't do that.
Not necessarily. Some people find guided prompts or gratitude journaling helpful even when freewriting makes things worse. But if it consistently leaves you feeling worse, it's okay to stop and try something else entirely.
An honest look at why journaling doesn't work for everyone and what to do instead.
How ILTY helps interrupt anxious thought patterns in real time.
Understanding why your brain gets stuck in loops and how to break free.
When the blank page itself becomes the barrier to processing emotions.
ILTY is free during beta. It's not therapy. It's not a cure. It's a place to talk through what you're going through—honestly, without judgment, whenever you need it.