“I spent 20 minutes pouring out my heart about my divorce, and the next day the app asked me 'What brings you here today?' like we'd never spoken. I felt stupid for thinking a chatbot would actually remember me.”
You shouldn't have to re-introduce yourself every time you open an app you've been using for weeks. When an AI forgets everything you've shared, it sends a clear message: what you said didn't matter enough to keep. ILTY stores your conversation history because context isn't a luxury — it's the bare minimum for a meaningful conversation.
Imagine telling a friend about your breakup, your job stress, your family issues — and then having them look at you blankly the next day and ask 'So what's going on with you?' You'd stop confiding in that person. That's exactly what most AI chatbots do.
The lack of memory isn't a minor inconvenience. It fundamentally breaks the relationship you're trying to build with the tool. Progress requires continuity. When every conversation starts from scratch, you can never build on what came before — and you end up doing emotional labor just to get the app back up to speed.
•Many chatbots use stateless session models — each conversation is technically independent, with no persistent storage of what you've discussed
•Privacy regulations make companies cautious about storing conversation data, so many default to not retaining anything
•Scripted CBT apps often don't need memory because each module is self-contained — the program doesn't change based on what you said last week
•Building genuine conversational memory is technically difficult and expensive, so most apps skip it entirely
ILTY remembers what you've discussed. Mention your sister's wedding three weeks ago, and it'll know what you're talking about when you bring it up again. This isn't gimmick memory — it's how conversation is supposed to work.
The more you talk to ILTY, the better the conversations get. It learns your patterns, your recurring worries, the things that matter to you. Week three is meaningfully different from day one.
You don't have to set the scene every session. ILTY already knows the background. You can jump straight into what's actually on your mind today.
We want to be honest about our limitations:
ILTY stores your conversation history securely and uses it as context when generating responses. When you open the app, your companion already knows what you've discussed before. It's not perfect recall of every detail, but it maintains meaningful continuity between sessions.
Yes. You have full control over your data. You can clear your conversation history at any time. Some people prefer a fresh start occasionally, and that's totally fine.
Generally, yes. The more context ILTY has, the more relevant and personalized its responses become. Early conversations might feel more generic, but after a week or two of regular use, the difference is noticeable.
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ILTY is free during beta. It's not therapy. It's not a cure. It's a place to talk through what you're going through—honestly, without judgment, whenever you need it.